[RwandaLibre] The pain of being a homosexual in Rwanda.

The pain of being a homosexual in Rwanda.

The East African, 2 hours ago
By Gilbert Mwijuke Special Correspondent
Posted Saturday, May 31 2014 at 11:01

Life has been a real struggle for Umutesi*, a Kigali-based lesbian in
her mid-30s. The dreadlocked woman has been insulted, castigated and
discriminated against for her sexual orientation since she was a
teenager.

When she was 14, Ms Umutesi's parents deliberately married her off in
an effort to alter her sexuality.

The marriage, of course, did not work, and it was obvious to her then
that her sexual orientation would never fit in the "straight people"
box. And her life, she says, has since been a torment that she has had
to endure with astonishing patience.

"I am glad the man I was forced to marry did not infect me with HIV. I
think I would be dead by now," she told lesbian, gay, bisexual,
transgender and intersex (LGBTI) rights groups that converged on the
Goethe Institut in Kiyovu, Kigali, on May 16 to mark the International
Day against Homophobia and Transphobia.

"I am a very beautiful woman with very attractive legs," Ms Umutesi
added. "But this is how I was created; there is nothing I can do about
it."

Even though Rwanda doesn't have an outright anti-gay law, Ms Umutesi
and some other homosexuals interviewed for this story asked to be
assigned pseudonyms for fear that coming out to profess their sexual
orientation would only attract more homophobia.

READ: Rwanda's gays allege silent discrimination

Despite persevering the brunt of homophobia directed at her, however,
Ms Umutesi had no harsh words for her tormentors, saying: "I know it's
difficult for most people to accept the way we [lesbians] were born.

"What we need is love, freedom and space -- just like other human
beings. Discriminating against us is not different from discrimination
by ethnicity.
"But even if you dislike and disrespect us, we, on the other hand, love you."

Claude Hakizimana*, a visual artist and musician, has had a somewhat
similar experience.

"Many people think we are useless -- that we went into this just for
the love of money," Mr Hakizimana said. "Some of us cannot even get
jobs just because of our sexuality."

Displaying some of his paintings, he added: "But I thank God I have
personally built a successful career in painting.

"My paintings are extremely popular with bazungu [Whites]. The only
challenge is that most people underestimate us once they find out that
we are gay.

"I am spreading my message through visual art and music."

Dr Stefan Jansen, a senior lecturer at the University of Rwanda who
has researched extensively on homosexuality, says stigmatisation of
gays and lesbians is sadly "normal" in Rwanda because "most children
grow up being told that the act is abnormal."

Being gay or lesbian in Rwanda and most African countries has long
meant hiding in the shadows of society, but stigmatisation of the
country's gay community has grown markedly since 2009 when some
Members of Parliament condemned and proposed criminalising the act,"
Dr Jansen said.

"Stigmatisation of homosexuals causes a lot of suffering to many
Rwandan families because the prevalence rate of homosexuality in the
country stands at about 3.5 per cent, meaning at least one in four
families has an LGBTI."

Even though there are a few Rwandans who choose to understand and
accept homosexuality rather than mock it, most people -- even the
educated and progressive ones -- simply do not believe that a person
can actually be born gay.

"God created a man to be attracted to a woman and vice-versa," said
Ruth, a local radio personality who, like a majority of Rwandans,
draws her intolerance of gays and lesbians from religious and cultural
traditions. She considers the act to be out of Western influence.

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Why has the UN ignored its own report about the massacres of Hutu refugees in DRC ?

The UN has ignored its own reports, NGOs and media reports about the massacres of hundreds of thousands of Hutu in DRC Congo (estimated to be more than 400,000) by Kagame when he attacked Hutu refugee camps in Eastern DRC in 1996. This barbaric killings and human rights violations were perpetrated by Kagame’s RPF with the approval of UK and USA and with sympathetic understanding and knowledge of UNHCR and international NGOs which were operating in the refugees camps. According to the UN, NGO and media reports between 1993 and 2003 women and girls were raped. Men slaughtered. Refugees killed with machetes and sticks. The attacks of refugees also prevented humanitarian organisations to help many other refugees and were forced to die from cholera and other diseases. Other refugees who tried to return to Rwanda where killed on their way by RFI and did not reach their homes. No media, no UNHCR, no NGO were there to witness these massacres. When Kagame plans to kill, he makes sure no NGO and no media are prevent. Kagame always kills at night.

The principal key root causes that lead to the Rwandan genocide of 1994 that affected all Rwandan ethnic groups were:

1)The majority Hutu community’s fear of the return of the discriminatory monarchy system that was practiced by the minority Tutsi community against the enslaved majority Hutu community for about 500 years

2)The Hutu community’s fear of Kagame’s guerrilla that committed massacres in the North of the country and other parts of the countries including assassinations of Rwandan politicians.

3) The Rwandan people felt abandoned by the international community ( who was believed to support Kagame’s guerrilla) and then decided to defend themselves with whatever means they had against the advance of Kagame’ guerrilla supported by Ugandan, Tanzanian and Ethiopian armies and other Western powers.

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United Kingdom's Proxy Wars in Africa: The Case of Rwanda and DR Congo:

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· 4 Heads of State assassinated in the francophone African Great Lakes Region.
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· 600,000 Hutu refugees killed in R.D.Congo, Uganda, Central African Republic and Rep of Congo.
· 6,000,000 Congolese dead.
· 8,000,000 internal displaced people in Rwanda, Burundi and DR. Congo.
· 500,000 permanent Rwandan and Burundian Hutu refugees, and Congolese refugees around the world.
· English language expansion to Rwanda to replace the French language.
· 20,000 Kagame’s fighters paid salaries from the British Budget Support from 1986 to present.
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Thousands of Hutu murdered by Kagame inside Rwanda, e.g. Kibeho massacres

25,000 Hutu bodies floated down River Akagera into Lake Victoria in Uganda.

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Kagame political ambitions triggered the genocide.

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This blog reports the crimes that remain unpunished and the impunity that has generated a continuous cycle of massacres in many parts of Africa. In many cases, the perpetrators of the crimes seem to have acted in the knowledge that they would not be held to account for their actions.

The need to fight this impunity has become even clearer with the massacres and genocide in many parts of Africa and beyond.

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Susan Rice: a cheater, irresponsible and corrupt woman

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